GOLDEN RULES FOR EVERYDAY LIFE-II 1. The quality of your work, the successes you achieve or the defeats you suffer all depend on your state of mind and the intentions that motivate you when you take the first step in a new undertaking. If you are in a stage of agitation when you set out to meet someone, you will stir up chaotic forces around you, and then what happens? Whereas, if you try to achieve an inner state of calmness and serenity and great love and set out in that frame of mind, the nearer you get to your destination the better will be your inner state and the greater your chances of concluding your business satisfactorily.
This is what it means to start off on the right foot. “Someone who never stop complaining and expressing his displeasure with God, life and the rest of the world, must warned that this destructive attitude will lead him make all kinds of mistakes”. “Siv aap mere guru ho, apne shiv guru ke charno me parnam kart ahu, mata rani ke charno me parnam kart ahu, Harender bhaya Nilam didi k charno me parnam karta hu, Guru bhaya guru behana ke charno me parnam kart hu, mera parnam swikar kijiyee. App mere dil me bas jayiyee. Hamesa aapko yaad karein. Pahale mai daya mangta hu dusre me charcha tisre me 108 baar Namasya Sivaya se apne Guru ke charno me parnam kart ahu”. If you know how to work with the positive forces of nature, other will love and appreciate you. Never forget that you have a magnificent garden within you and that you can distribute your flowers and fruits to everyone you meet. If you have this desire always to give something of your own soul and sprit, life will never cease to flow within you. The importance of our hands is very evident in everyday life, because we use them to communication with other people. Let your eyes radiate divine life. Most human beings have learned to control their words and gestures to a certain extent, they don’t start punching every individual who irritates them or kissing everyone who attracts them, they don’t tell everyone with brutal frankness exactly what they think of them. The spiritual life also begins with the duration of your eyes. If you are capable of choosing the difficult path, the Lord will send angels to help you but, if you choose the patch of facility, you will be obliged sooner or later, to start all over again and assume all the responsibilities that you ran away from. When you have done someone a wrong, it is not enough to apologize and you must also make reparation. This is the only way to be free of your debt. To say, I am terribly sorry and do please forgive me is not enough and divine Law will pursue you until you have repaired the damage you have done. You will say, but what if the person I have injured forgives me. It is not quite so simple the law is one thing and the person another. Now come to spirituality life. Twenty or thirty times a day you have the opportunity to practice this and, if you use each occasion to its fullest advantage, many apparently unpleasant circumstances can be made to contribute to your good. Life has an abundant supply of all that is needed for the instruction of human being. There is a key for every problem as like in our home there are lot of home and every home has a separate key to open door. Just like the same we have also lot of difficulties in our life and all difficulties can be broken and uprooted only by thinking and solving the problem and also by facing the same difficulties. The three essential keys are love, wisdom and truth. Love opens the heart, wisdom opens the intellect and truth opens the will. When I am looking for the solution to a problem, you have to try the different keys one after the other. If the first one won’t unlock the door, try the second, and if that one doesn’t work, try the third. There is an answer to every objection raised by sadness and discouragement, but you will not find it unless you accept to look at things differently, and this requires that you reason correctly. Every time a new situation or event crop up, take the time to consider both the negative (since you insist) and the positive aspects. It is, obviously, not good deluding yourself and saying that everything is perfect but, at the same time, you must refuse to look only on the dark side of life. You are thinking, oh we know all that already. Observe your behavior and you will see that you too often forget to put your good notions into practice. Suffering is a Warning. Natures has placed entities within us to watch over us and, when we start to destroy something in our physical bodies or in our hearts or minds, these entities sting and bites us in order to get us back into the right path. This is what suffering is a warning that we have strayed from the good condition which things were clear and easy. Suffering, therefore, is an entity sent by the invisible world to save us and we must not fight against a savior. The more one fights suffering the worse it gets. It says, hi you don’t want to understand is it. Well I will show you and its attacks grow more violent. I have been living that has brought me to this and now that I understand I have decided to change my ways. Please give me some credit, give me conditions that will help me to mend all that and dedicate myself to do best service. This is the only things to do. It is sheer/ pure stupidity to rebel against suffering and it is not sent to us by chance, nor as a form of revenge or punishment and it is simply a servant of God that is sent to warn us. There is a marvelous methods present in us and that is to use the power of a smile. Even, if you are alone try to show that you are above your difficulties by smiling. Don’t Let Carelessness Spoil Your relationships. There are days when you feel so rich and happy that you float along in a state of bliss. When this happens, do you think of sharing some of your joy with those who are unhappy and in need? You must learn to give something from the abundance you have received, saying. If you want to keep your happiness and are unwilling to share it, malicious sprits from the invisible world will do all they can to take it away from you. They will provoke some unforeseen incident that will rob you of all joy and happiness. What you give in this way will be credited to your account in the banks of heaven, and you will be able to draw on it, later, when you need it. And all these riches will always be within you, no one can take them from you, because you have put them safely away in the vaults of heaven. Use Love Not Force In Settling Your Problems. When human being has problems to settle with others, they always tend to resort to force. The result is that, far from being solved, their problems become even more complicated and corrosive, because this attitude triggers a reaction from their adversary’s lover nature. As long as human beings continue to prefer brute force to the luminous power of the spirit, to the power of divine love, they will never find the answer to their problems. The only answer is in love, kindness and humility. To be sure, this does not mean that everything will fall into place immediately, for if you treat others with kindness and humility, those who have been very badly brought you weak and stupid and will continue to trample you underfoot. But you must be patient. It will not be long before they realize that your attitude is not dictated by weakness but, on the contrary, by great moral and spiritual strength, they will begin to be humbler and more respectful and everything will straighten itself out. When are you going to make up your minds to show a little generosity, a little nobility? You must close your eyes to certain things, wipe them from your mind and forgive them, this is the only way to grow and become stronger. In fact, you back to you a hundredfold. In the meantime, if you really want to teach your enemy a lesson forget about him and set to work to accomplish a gigantic transformation of yourself. Pray, meditate, learn and practice until, at last, you possess true wisdom and genuine powers. The only thing that really matters is for you to improve yourself, to concentrate only on what is constructive, pure and divine. “Naturally, this demands a lot of love, patience and light, but I know of no more effective method“.
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